by Christina Medvescek
When people talk about Lois West, they tend to gush.
For example, listen to Robert Ross, MDAs president
& CEO: "Shes been a devoted volunteer for many years. Shes
someone whose entire life has been dedicated to serving others."
Or Timmi Masters of Beverly Hills, MDAs secretary
and a longtime member of the Associations Board of Directors: "Shes
a whiz at everything so very easygoing that everyone feels comfortable
around her never complains "
Ross: " the kindest, most considerate person
"
Masters: "When MDA asks Lois to do something,
she doesnt give an excuse, she just does it."
Ross: "Smart as a tack and can read anybody."
Masters: "Shed make a Valium look nervous."
Ross: " remarkably self-effacing, a lovely
human being "
Meet Lois West, 82, a 34-year member of MDAs Board
of Directors, former first lady of South Carolina, unflappable hostess
to heads of state, and former middle-of-the-night child-turner at
MDA summer camps. She calls herself "just a housewife, basically."
It Started at Summer Camp
Mrs. John C. West "Lois" to just about
everybody - has been involved with MDA since someone asked her to
help with a summer camp in the early 1960s. Interested in rehab programs
for people with disabilities since she majored in physical education
in college, West took to MDA camp at once.
"When we started with summer camp, we had six
or seven states lumped together," she recalls in her soft, elegant
Carolina drawl. "I got to know the kids and their parents, and
got to understand for a week what it was like for parents all year
long.
"I got to know the personalities of the kids
and I was so impressed by their wonderful spirits! It always impressed
me that I never turned a child at night who didnt smile and say,
thank you. The children really have a courage. They taught me a
lot more than I taught them."
As a camp volunteer, she downplayed her status in
South Carolinas power circles. But it wasnt long before she was
finding ways to bring that power to bear on behalf of kids and adults
with disabilities.
In the late 1960s and 1970s, she helped organize
and direct MDAs camp at Winder, Ga., which was among the few handicapped-accessible
camps. She later became director of the MDA summer camp at York, S.C.,
where her three children and future daughter-in-law volunteered. ("Thats
the way I got to know I liked her," she recalls.)
As first lady of South Carolina from 1971 to 1975,
West was influential in getting funding for and helping design Clemson
Universitys Outdoor Laboratory, an innovative barrier-free summer
camp and outdoor recreation research facility.
Steel Magnolia
By 1969, MDA had snagged West for its Board of Directors
and she became a gentle yet energetic force in the organization. The
gentleness belied a backbone of steel.
Former Gov. West recently told a reporter for The
State, a Columbia, S.C., newspaper, of a time during the turbulent
civil rights era when he was running for office and was threatened
by the Ku Klux Klan for his advocacy of racial integration. The hate
group even ran Mrs. Wests car off the road.
Known as a crack shot, she sent word to the KKK grand
dragon that if anything happened to her husband, he neednt worry
about the grand jury she would kill him herself.
Although few have seen that side of her, none who
know her have trouble believing it.
"If shes your friend, shes your friend and
shell do anything for you," says Masters, who developed a tight
friendship with West during the years theyve spent together on the
MDA Board. "Shes a very strong woman."
Often that strength shows in her uncomplaining, gracious
adaptation to whatever life sends through the door. Sometimes its
12 for dinner or once, 200 for lunch with little or no advance
notice. (She quickly mixed up a salad in a clean garbage can for the
lunch.)
Masters tells of a time when West fell and knocked
out some front teeth the day she was to host the MDA Board at her
home on Hilton Head Island, S.C. She managed to get a temporary fix
and carry on so cheerfully her guests didnt even realize what had
happened.
When President Carter appointed her husband U.S.
ambassador to Saudi Arabia in 1977, West would fly back to the States
for MDA Board meetings in between hosting dinners and luncheons for
the protocol-conscious Saudis. Her diplomatic but firm insistence
on U.S. wives participating in some ceremonies along with their husbands
a revolutionary idea in Saudi culture paved the way for later
Saudi openness to female heads of state like Margaret Thatcher.
A Strong Guiding Hand
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The Faces of Lois: West
(right) with her good friend Timmi Masters and (above)
in an official MDA Board of Directors photo and as a counselor
at MDA camp in the 1970s.
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From 1991 through 1994, West served as MDAs first
female president (a position now known as chairman of the Board),
presiding over a period of great difficulty, change and advancement
in the Association.
Her tenure included the discovery by MDA grantees
of the genetic roots of several neuromuscular diseases and the exciting
early promise of stem cell and gene therapies. It also included soaring
health care costs that severely taxed the Associations resources,
and the huge undertaking of moving the organizations headquarters
from its New York City offices to more frugal Tucson, Ariz.
West is clearly proud of MDA and all it has accomplished.
To her, its not an organization but a big group of people, from individuals
and families affected by neuromuscular diseases, to volunteers, MDA
field staff, doctors and researchers around the world. Its her turn
to gush when she honors them: "The care and concern they show,
the love they express, its a very moving thing. I feel privileged
to meet them."
An especially poignant moment for her came at a Board
meeting in the early 1990s, when a film was shown about people with
myasthenia gravis, one of whom could only move a few fingers. After
the lights came back on, the severely impaired woman from the film
walked onto the stage and thanked MDA for developing plasmapheresis,
a blood-filtering process that had reversed most of her symptoms.
"It was one of the most dramatic things Ive
ever seen," West enthuses.
"They do so much good work," she continues.
"The whole organization - its a good group and they care.
"One of the things about MDA is that theyre
flexible. If something promising comes up with gene research or stem
cells, we can jump on it. Were set so that if we see the way to help
dramatically, we can move fast. We dont have a lot of bureaucracy.
Thats the key."
Always a Camper
West ducks the praise others want to pour on her
head. "Well, I havent done much! Youve been talking to my prejudiced
friends! I do what ordinary people do."
This is typical behavior, says Masters, who recalls
going along with West to a luncheon and not finding out until after
it started that West was being honored at the event.
West has cut back on some activities now that shes
"getting long in the tooth," but she continues to serve
as chairman of the MDA Executive Committee, in addition to looking
after her husband, four grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.
"One of my grandsons is an orthopedic surgeon and one is in the
third grade, so it varies," she smiles.
And though its been years since she was a one-on-one
volunteer at MDA summer camp, shell always be a camper in her soul.
"Shes so down to earth," laughs Masters.
"I remember once when we were golfing and it was really hot.
Lois just took off her cap, filled it with ice water and put it back
on her head. Not many women would do that. But thats Lois."